✔️ Start small—even 5 minutes of movement beats skipping a workout!
🥱 3. Motivation Comes and Goes
The scale isn’t the only measure of success! Instead, track:
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
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📅 Schedule workouts like meetings—no skipping!
🚨 Why This Works: Small, visible changes keep you inspired!
What makes you feel guilty the most?
1️⃣ Set Realistic Goals (Start Small, Stay Committed!) 🎯
✔️ Reward yourself—New workout gear after a month of consistency? YES! 🏅
🚨 Why This Works: Motivation fades, but habits last!
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🚨 Why This Works: Achievable goals build momentum, keeping you motivated & consistent.
💡 But guess what? These obstacles aren’t unbeatable! Let’s fix them. 👇
Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?
Some days, you’re ready to crush it. Other days, you'd rather binge-watch Netflix.
🍩 4. Easy Access to Junk Food
Losing weight at home may seem convenient, but let’s be real—it comes with unique challenges. Distractions, lack of motivation, and inconsistent routines can make weight loss feel frustrating.
I live in Massachusetts. Are there any resources here for people that are being harassed by voice to skull, etc.?
Not feeling motivated? Try these:
✔️ Progress photos 📸
💡 Stay accountable with these strategies:
Hello, I have a question about astral projection. I started to get interested in this a little while after my mum passed in april. I thought I may be able to see her and speak with her if I managed to achieve astral projection. Since this interest, every time i sleep on my back I go into sleep paralysis. However, I cant progress into astral projection because it is very scary for me as I feel like I'm suffocating when this happens. I panic and force myself to wake up. This only ever happened about once a year before this. It sometimes lasts a long time. This has happened about 3 times per week since my mum died, as mentioned on a previous post. I no longer try to go into it anymore(due to the suffocating feeling), but it still happens. I read that sleep paralysis is the pathway to astral projection. Why has this started to happen so frequently since simply taking an interest in it? Is this connected to the afterlife? I am concerned about it as I now cannot seem to stop this happening. Could it be my mum trying to communicate? Im asking due to more knowledge around this in this group.
6️⃣ Track Progress the Right Way 📊
Ever found yourself pumped on Monday, sluggish by Wednesday, and back to old habits by Friday? You're not alone! Let’s break down why consistency is tough and how you can finally achieve lasting results.
✔️ Example: “For the first two weeks, I will walk 5,000 steps daily and drink more water.”
Recently, I cleared my JP Morgan coding round. Next, I received mail for a video interview. What kind of questions are asked in this round? How do I prepare myself?
🕒 Set a fixed workout time and stick to it.
5️⃣ Overcome the “I Have No Motivation” Trap! 🚀
✔️ Post progress online (if it keeps you motivated!)
Why does my cat get anxious during loud noises like thunderstorms or firework displays? Is this a common behavior for cats, and is there a way to help them cope with it?
🚨 Why This Works: When someone is watching, quitting becomes harder!
✔️ Turn chores into movement—dance while cleaning! 🎵
Repeating the same workouts and meals gets dull, leading to lack of enthusiasm and quitting.
Why are North Carolina Democrats against Mark Robinson? He is the modern Martin Luther King Jr. and the Democrats are being stupid for not voting him.
😩 6. Boredom Kills Progress
No personal trainer, no gym fees, and no one watching = easier to skip workouts.
🚨 Why This Works: Routine removes decision fatigue—no more debating whether to work out!
Why do Democrats call any Republican "Magats", like they are subhuman?
✔️ Find your WHY—Is it more energy? Confidence? Longevity? Write it down!
🚫 1. No Clear Plan = No Results
✔️ Keep healthy snacks nearby (nuts, yogurt, fruit) 🍎
What are some difficulties in a JEE aspirant's life?
✔️ Ditch the “All or Nothing” Mindset—One bad meal won’t ruin your progress! 🚀
✔️ Challenge a friend online for accountability 🏆
✔️ Example: “I will work out at 7 AM before starting my day.”
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✔️ Listen to music or a podcast while exercising 🎧
Without a structured plan, workouts feel random, meals lack balance, and progress stalls.
🏋️♀️ Hate traditional workouts? Try these alternatives:
I read this: "Putin is a brilliant, courageous, ingenious, determined, beloved, and incredible modern leader. He is currently the world’s most effective and strong leader, the best the world has seen in centuries." What do you think about this?
✔️ Visualize success—Imagine your future self stronger, healthier, happier!
🚨 Why This Works: The more you enjoy it, the more likely you’ll stay consistent!
📌 Easy At-Home Meal Hacks:
Do crossdressers like wearing pantyliners and tampons in their butts?
✔️ Meal prep in advance (avoids last-minute unhealthy choices) 🍱
7️⃣ Find an Accountability System (So You Don’t Quit!) 👥
🔥 Bonus Tips for Faster Results! 🚀
✔️ Follow YouTube workouts (HIIT, dance, bodyweight, or yoga!) 💃
At home, snacks are just steps away—temptation is everywhere!
TV, social media, family responsibilities, or even that cozy couch calling your name—procrastination wins!
✔️ Tip: Set phone reminders or alarms.
Losing weight at home doesn’t have to be a struggle. The key is making small, consistent changes that turn into lifelong habits.
💡 Final Thoughts: You Got This! Stay Consistent & Results Will Follow!
✔️ Use a workout app for guided sessions 📱
💡 Avoid vague goals like "I want to lose weight." Instead, be specific:
✔️ Use habit-tracking apps 📊
🚨 Why This Works: Prevents cravings, reduces guilt, and makes healthy eating effortless.
✔️ Example: “I will lose 10 lbs in 2 months by exercising 5 days a week and eating balanced meals.”
Here’s why so many people start strong but struggle to stay on track:
✔️ Join a fitness challenge 💪
✔️ Workout with a buddy (even virtually!)
✔️ Get Enough Sleep—Poor sleep = more cravings & less energy! 😴
3️⃣ Make Workouts Fun & Engaging 🎶🔥
2️⃣ Build a Routine (Make It Automatic!) ⏳
4️⃣ Fix Your Diet Without Feeling Deprived 🥗
🛌 5. No External Accountability
✔️ Drink more water (thirst is often mistaken for hunger) 💧
🏠 2. Too Many Distractions
✔️ Strength & energy levels
💬 What’s your biggest challenge in staying consistent? Drop a comment below—I’d love to help! 👇✨
✔️ How your clothes fit 👗
📌 Break it down into mini-goals:
✅ The Game Plan: How to Stay Consistent & Lose Weight at Home 💪
✔️ Store junk food out of sight (what you don’t see, you won’t crave!) 🍩❌
🥦 Follow the 80/20 Rule: Eat 80% whole, nutritious foods (fruits, veggies, lean protein, whole grains) while allowing 20% treats to stay sane.
🏡 Struggling with Weight Loss at Home? Here’s How to Stay Consistent & Finally See Results! 🚀
